Just a Little More Time
Working moms and dads just want a little more time. The rush-rush-rush of life has gotten to be too much and we parents are really feeling it. An article in the Huntsville Times seems to capture the sentiment quite well:
http://www.al.com/business/huntsvilletimes/index.ssf?/base/business/
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But what are we to do about it? That's where some good tools come in to play. For instance, when's the last time you said "no" to something that you really didn't want to do? When's the last time you turned the TV off and unplugged the phone to opt for family time without interruptions?
Our rapid pace, full work days and regular responsibilities seem to snowball, leaving us feeling worn down, worn out and just plain exhausted. I recommend change for families that is a little like going cold turkey, for instance: Throw the breaker in the house on a fall day and pretend that the electricity went out. You'll save a few bucks and if you do it at night, you can enjoy the candle light, the time together (because no one wants to be alone in the dark) and if people really get bored, just do what they did in the "old days," sing a song, turn the radio on or play a game. Then when you've had enough time together, go throw it back on without others knowing.
As the parent, it's your responsiblity to take action towards change. If you don't, I can pretty much guarantee that it's just going to stay the same... And let me tell you, the time flies by and pretty soon they're in college and you're wondering why you didn't make the time. Don't go there. Start now. After all everything you do is a CHOICE – you may say "I can't," but I ask you to be honest and admit that what you mean is "I won't." There's very little we cannot do. And yes, sometimes fear keeps us complacent.
If you need a little motivation or some tools to fight the fears, call me. I'll get you headed in the right direction and you'll never look back!!!
http://www.al.com/business/huntsvilletimes/index.ssf?/base/business/
1147598380219180.xml&coll=1
But what are we to do about it? That's where some good tools come in to play. For instance, when's the last time you said "no" to something that you really didn't want to do? When's the last time you turned the TV off and unplugged the phone to opt for family time without interruptions?
Our rapid pace, full work days and regular responsibilities seem to snowball, leaving us feeling worn down, worn out and just plain exhausted. I recommend change for families that is a little like going cold turkey, for instance: Throw the breaker in the house on a fall day and pretend that the electricity went out. You'll save a few bucks and if you do it at night, you can enjoy the candle light, the time together (because no one wants to be alone in the dark) and if people really get bored, just do what they did in the "old days," sing a song, turn the radio on or play a game. Then when you've had enough time together, go throw it back on without others knowing.
As the parent, it's your responsiblity to take action towards change. If you don't, I can pretty much guarantee that it's just going to stay the same... And let me tell you, the time flies by and pretty soon they're in college and you're wondering why you didn't make the time. Don't go there. Start now. After all everything you do is a CHOICE – you may say "I can't," but I ask you to be honest and admit that what you mean is "I won't." There's very little we cannot do. And yes, sometimes fear keeps us complacent.
If you need a little motivation or some tools to fight the fears, call me. I'll get you headed in the right direction and you'll never look back!!!
posted by Julie Renee at 9:31 AM
1 Comments:
Hi Barb,
So how does one play "murder in the dark?" Being on the other side of the pond, I think my kids may have missed the opportunity to play this. Sounds like something they'd enjoy. Especially around Halloween!
Happy day to you in the UK!
Julie
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